"pan-" as a prefix means "all"
Unless you are having sex with children & dead things of multiple species, as well as objects, you are NOT pansexual.
Any time someone tells me they are "pansexual" I usually enthusiastically ask if they are into dead things, animals and kids - the answer often involves some kind of back-pedaling.
Even I am NOT pansexual, and I fuck a lot of unusual stuff.
People need to get over their need for some special designation to their sexuality - I've labelled myself as "onanistic technosexual" just because my lack of label-ability has always really made people uncomfortable my whole life, so they apply WRONG labels to me just to give themselves some comfort. Guess what - most people have developed into onanistic technosexuals!!!! They have this need to incorporate the internet in their sexual expression, (haha - or toys, it's all technology!) and have less desire to participate in person. I was being a bit sarcastic (and a little bitter) with that idea.
SO, unless you are saying you're a pedophile to some degree, I suggest you NOT tell people you are "pansexual", no matter how many things or people you fuck.
Very good points.... it seems these days that a lot of people need to label themselves so they have a point to argue ... or be the center of attention in arguments or some other reason.... Which by the way seems pretty petty.
ReplyDeleteYeah...I finally started labeling myself after 40 years out of rage. Us heterosexuals are as fucked up as any other category!!!!
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